Friday, 18 April 2008

The application form:


Slave Application Form

You can use this form to apply for a position as a BDSM "Bottom" with me. The form will help me to understand your approach to BDSM and whether or not you and I are well matched.


Please note, this form is NOT intended to be any kind of slave contract form, and is not intended to indicate or prescribe the eventual form of a relationship (although you could consider it to be a form of petition). Nor is it a BDSM checklist, although if your application is successful it may be helpful for you to be prepared to fill one out. This form is just to get an idea of who you are, where you're going, and what you might be expecting.


Section 1: Basic Details and Contact Information

Please use this section of the form to give me enough information so that I can contact you with a reply. You may fill in as much or as little of this section, as long as one valid method of contact is provided, that you check regularly. It is ENTIRELY up to you how much information you trust me with at this stage.

Please enter all of the following details:




Online/ownership name:



Sex/gender identity (please select the option that you feel most closely describes you - please interpret the terms broadly):


Age:

Location:

NB: ANY APPLICATION WITH AGE UNDER 18, OR NO AGE GIVEN, WILL AUTOMATICALLY BE REJECTED!

Smoking:

Drinking:

Drugs (please tick all that apply):
Never ; In the past only ; Recreational ; Former addict ; Current addict ;

Cannabis ; Ecstasy ; Amphetamines ; Class 'A' drugs (e.g. cocaine, heroin) ; Other

Children (please indicate how many you currently have):

Please enter at least one of the following:

Email address:

Yahoo IM address:

MSN Messenger address:

You do not have to provide the following information if you do not want to:

Webpage address:

Telephone number:

Mobile phone number:




Section 2: Position Applied For

Use this section to describe your BDSM and sexual orientation, and what sort of relationship you expect or would like.

Preferred title:

BDSM Orientation:

Please tick all that apply:

Switch ; Submissive ; Masochist ; Sadist ;

Bondage ; Forced/rebellious ; Obedient ; Humiliation

Relationship Orientation:

Please tick all options that you would find acceptable, or that you would be willing to experience at least once:

Monogamous ; Polyamorous ; sub-sister ; Loaned to or shared with others ; Alpha sub/have own sub

Sexual Orientation:

Please tick all options that you find sexually attractive or would like to experience having sex with:

Men ; Women ; Genderqueer ; Male CD/TV ; Female CD/TV ; M-F Transsexual ; F-M Transsexual

Relationship type:

Please tick all that would be acceptable to you:

Online only/long-distance relationship ; Visit occasionally D/s ; Visit frequently D/s ; Living together, P/T D/s Living together, 24/7 D/s



Section 3: Qualifications and Experience

Use this part of the form to describe any education you have received, and what training and experience you have had within BDSM.

Education:

You do not have to give the following information if you do not want to.

Secondary education - please indicate how many GCSEs (or equivalent) you have:

Further education - please indicate how many 'A' levels you have (count AS levels as half an A level each):

Higher education - if you have a degree, please indicate the type, subject and grade here:

You can describe any other skills or training you have, that you think may help your application, here:


Experience:

Please give a few words about how much real-life experience you have of BDSM and power-exchange relationships:



If you wish, you may enter the web addresses of any online profiles that you may have. I am especially interested in BDSM community sites, but any profile would help. You do not have to give this information if you do not want to.


If you wish, you may enter the email addresses of one or more former partners who have agreed to give a reference for you, here. You do not have to give this information if you do not want to.


Part 4: Personal details

Please give information here about your physical characteristics. These will not affect your chances of being found suitable, so please be honest. Dishonesty in any part of this application form will certainly result in an application being dismissed.

Height (please say which units you used when measuring):

Weight (Please say which units you used when measuring):

Please give your bra size, waist and hip measurements here (men only need to give their waist measurement). If you prefer, you can just put your UK dress size instead:

Hair colour:

Hair length (please describe):

Eye colour:

Eyesight:

Piercings (please tick all that apply):
Ear(s) ; tongue ; nose ; septum ; other facial piercing(s) ;
navel ; private parts ; other body part .

Please describe briefly any health concerns you may have, e.g. allergies, asthma, diabetes, etc. You can also include mental health issues (since I suffer from depression, and I have had a slave with bipolar disorder, I have no prejudice on these matters). You do not have to give this information if you do not want to:


Please enter here any other significant information concerning your appearance and/or physical characteristics. It is up to you to decide what you feel is significant.




Part 5: More Detailed Information

This section is your chance to impress me with your individuality, your use of language, and letting me see the real you. Please use as much of the space provided with each of the following tasks. If it seems like you have already given some of the information in the earlier parts, please use this space to expand on those answers and be creative.

1/. I would like you to write about something that interests you outside of slavery. This can be anything you like, perhaps politics, or music, or books, your favourite sports, what you like to eat or drink. If you have space, please also list some other things that interest you, maybe with a few words about each.


2/. I would like you to tell me about whatever you feel your greatest achievement has been in your life so far. Tell me what it was, and why that particular thing stands out for you. It might be something to do with your (desire for) submission, or it might be something to do with your non-BDSM life.


3/. I would like you to write down any talents that you have, whether you think of them as being BDSM-related or not. Please be inventive in your answer, but not deceptive.


4/. I would like you to tell me about the things you enjoy (or fantasise about) most, about being a slave. For example, do you enjoy being controlled, do you enjoy being beaten or tortured, or maybe you enjoy focusing on someone else instead of yourself? Maybe there are particular sorts of service, or of pain, that you like more than the others - I would like to know what these are.


5/. Finally, would like to know about your hard-limits. I will not a statement that you have no hard-limits, because everyone draws the line somewhere. Even if you believe that you will accept anything from a master, I want you to tell me the things that you would find hardest to accept.


6/. Why are you applying for this position?

This is the most important question on the form. Please use this space to explain why you wish to be my slave in particular. You may say why you chose to fill in this form, you may talk about how well you feel you match my requirements and I match yours, or anything you feel may convince me that I should develop a relationship with you.





By checking this box, you are giving your word that you have to the best of your ability given true and accurate information about yourself with the purpose of being considered as a potential partner in a D/s relationship with Snowdrop Explodes. You state that you understand that if you have deliberately lied or provided misleading information, that Snowdrop Explodes will not be interested in such a relationship and the application will fail. If you do not check this box, the application will not receive a reply.




Clicking the "Submit" button below will create an email in your default email application to send the information to me. You can use "select all" to "copy-paste" the information into a webmail email if you prefer.




Thank you kindly for taking the time to fill out this application form.

You will receive a reply within the next day or two.




If the above "submit" button doesn't work for any reason, you can copy-and-paste the questions into a Word document and type your answers there (this may also be a good way to think about your answers before sending). You can then send the word document as an attachment, to snowdrop-explodes@talk21.com
with subject line "slave application form"


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